the focus of the separation and conflict creation of Confucianism is the family 儒教的割裂重点和制造矛盾的重点 家庭

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As the smallest unit in society: the family is the key object of Confucianism, and it is also the focus of the separation and conflict creation of Confucianism.
To create conflicts, we must deliberately create ideological confrontation. The common method is to promote "a kind mother and strict father" or "a kind father and strict mother". In short, the opinions of the two family members of the father and mother cannot be consistent, because once the parents' opinions in a family are consistent, the family cohesion will be formed, which is not conducive to the Confucian style of the industry and cannot lick the ruler's ass.
Moreover, this practice in the family will subtly affect the children's mental health, and the psychological distortion of the next generation is exactly the result that Confucianism wants. This is a "good thing" that can kill multiple deaths for Confucianism.

作为社会最小的组成单位：家庭，是儒教重点祸害的对象，也是儒教的割裂重点和制造矛盾的重点。
要制造矛盾就要刻意的制造思想对立，常见的手段是宣扬“慈母严父”或者是“慈父严母”，总之作为父和母的两个家庭成员的意见不能一致，因为一旦一个家庭中父母的意见一致了就会形成家庭凝聚力，这不利于儒教的狗腿子行业作风，无法向统治者舔腚眼子了。
而且家庭中的这种做法会潜移默化的影响孩子的心理健康，而下一代的心理扭曲，正是儒教想要的结果。这对儒教来说是一举多得的“好事”。